I was married with a finnish lady. I did not realise how good it was. When she moved on, I did not bother, I thought she found her happiness and respected her new life with another partner. Later I heared she was rather unhappy. I cannot undo that mistake, but it made me look further and realise we should talk and ask if we do not know. Guessing is making mistakes, but that is part of life. I am older, and still hope to find my match. I will do my best to make it work. That is all I can say.